Moonworm [any]

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Cake day: January 1st, 2024

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  • Up to 175 on my squat, which feels great. It does not feel great to be surrounded by 20-somethings who are lifting twice my weight every time I go to the gym. Just gotta remember that it’s not about that. They’ve been at it longer than I have and they’re younger. It has been nice to start noticing that my pants are falling down. Failed some of my bench press reps at 125, which is frustrating because I’m hungry to get the plates on there, but it’s a process I guess. Think I gotta audit my diet to just see where I am and if I need more protein.

    One thing I’m not sure is real or not is that my facial hair seems to be growing like crazy. I don’t know if it’s just getting older or if I’ve got more testosterone from the lifting. Like I’m feeling some other effects maybe that are in line with that. Mostly it’s just annoying to shave more often. But if some hormonal decisiveness is helping with my executive dysfunction, that’s pretty tight.







  • That really is not the part of the comment that’s in question as being hurtful. It is the preceding, “I would not fuck you”. There is still an understanding that they would fuck in the context of knowing each other, etc. But is it really not just a little bit not great to hear your partner say something that amounts to, “If you were just like somebody who meant nothing to me and I was evaluating in physical terms, I wouldn’t hit that shit”? And I’ll reiterate, I don’t think that was the intended meaning, certainly not the intended main point. But, as continues to be demonstrated, there are a whole fuck lot of men who would interpret this remark as calling them ugly.