am Finnish, so i responded as such. for Japanese, however, you’d use ō instead. that is not an ö. ou is also acceptable.
am Finnish, so i responded as such. for Japanese, however, you’d use ō instead. that is not an ö. ou is also acceptable.
the ö’s make this even more amusing, as i can’t be sure it was an accidental dick-up instead of a nordic memelord giggling themself to sleep.
do you got your own spoon at least?
i agree, you shouldn’t do it. i used to be like that & people would constantly comment on it. it caused me body image issues & a weird relationship with food that i’m still having to deal with, 20 years later.
It’s a valid criticism.
I rage deleted my 1.5 year old lemmy account for this reason just a few weeks back.
Then I got randomly banned on reddit
it’s the biggest factor preventing lemmy from growing right now.
leftist 4chan
honestly dunno where to even begin. like, you know when you’re just in absolute fucking awe of something & you feel like you should be communicating your feelings, but you just can’t? yeah, that’s where i’m at.
touch grass
sit in a quiet, dark room
are you so incensed you forgot how grass works or what
i live in a place where trans healthcare’s aim is not to explore how gender-affirming care could help you, but to prove you don’t need gender-affirming care. started DIY a while back & it’s the best decision i’ve ever made. like, i’m not a kid anymore, i don’t wanna be old & regret not allowing myself a chance to feel content in my body.
i do fuken h8 needles, though.
anyway. i wish you all the best on your journey, friend ❤
gotta love how they’re never too young to be traumatised by the experience of growing up in a rapidly changing body that will never feel like their own (:
oh, look, it’s one of these again.
Avril is a clone, actually, but they liked her version better than mine. “too experimental & loud & abrasive,” they said.
call the bondulance
unfortunately my trans balls already occupy an eternal pit of existential despair u___u
it gets better the longer u look at it
Neil “Scary Trousers” Gaiman
just wanted to say that today’s been crappy & seeing this reference made me feel a lil better.
fuck off, you don’t get to hop on a high horse here. you don’t get to turn it around when you’re straight up refusing to reflect on your own behaviour. i’m sure you think you’re being very clever, but i can guarantee what you’re doing right now is such common bigot behaviour that the people in this thread see right through it.
you feel like you should be allowed to use a slur. extremely weird, but alright. the people around you will, however, react accordingly. you’re not special.
there’s the initial sting, yeah, but it’ll subside once my brain remembers the context. when used in a bigoted way, the feeling sticks for a while.
It communicates “you aren’t disabled, you have no excuse for acting like it, start choosing to use the fully functional brain you have”.
look, if this doesn’t make you see how it’s a shitty thing to say, i don’t think anyone else can help you understand.
i used to think it was okay for me to say as i’m disabled. what i noticed, though, is that my doing so 1) communicated to my abled peers that it’s okay for them to say as well & 2) made me appear as a pick-me; i was perceived as “one of the good ones.”
the r-slur has been causing a very visceral reaction in me for years & i will continue to report each & every instance of it.
i want to hug you & never let go.