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9 months agoWhere I live we have a bunch of small holidays in the spring. Winter only has the one big one. Spring seems more the season for them
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Where I live we have a bunch of small holidays in the spring. Winter only has the one big one. Spring seems more the season for them
What incredibly enough hasn’t been brought up yet, is the distinction between gender preference and genital preference. In heteronormativity they’re assumed to be the same, but in reality they’re not. This way of thinking also lends itself to the flexibility you’re describing; note the word “preference”.