I know this is more fitted for the mental health community on lemmy.world, but that community feels like shouting in the void. I want to have a more “normal” talk about like life, death, purpose, and stuff. How do y’all not just get consumed by how you will be gone one day, how one day no one in the world will even remember you. Most of us aren’t even gonna have a wikipedia page, not even gonna make it into one single news article (obituaries don’t count). I’m just so sad. What’s the point. What keeps you going?
Edit: I live in the USA btw, I’m around age 18-25. I was diagnosed with depression last year and I took some antidepressants for some time, but I’ve since stopped taking them for a while.
Some great responses that I can’t beat here. But a little more perspective: For me, when I’m overwhelmed, and feeling existential, it always comes back to one thing. I’m trying too much. Many people solve this by giving up. But the real answer is to try harder with fewer things.
For example, “someday no one in the world will remember you”. Is being remembered forever actually something you should try and achieve? How about just making an impact in your loved ones lives? How about contributing something to society (like your career) that will outlive you, even if no one remembers who did it.
Rather than trying to make your life what it “should be” , make goals to forge a life that’s better for you. These should be realistic steps towards becoming content with what you have. Everything else is gravy. Maybe you will end up talked about forever.
Remember, goals can point you in the right direction, but don’t sweat meeting them exactly. Life throws curve balls and you will adapt. Remember to appreciate the moment you’re in. Then when you desire purpose, your goals will remind you which way to go.
This is so, so true. Thank you for this, kind stranger.