I called some people I’m seeing partners, but got scolded by a friend because I guess partner means a relationship that’s more “serious”. My friend suggested calling them lovers.
I’m emotionally involved with all my people and I care about them. I just get an ick from labels and relationship ladders (abusive family).
I’m looking for a word that’s unassuming, but clearly says “I’m not single” so I can easily be honest with monogamous people.
Any suggestions? Lover sounds a little too much like cheating.
We have always just used partner. Lover maybe, if it is a long term thing. If I am with community folk I am comfortable with, I’ll call them subs or good girl/boy. It’s honestly whatever creams your twinkie, friend.