Please be kind with me as I am new to this platform. I was at a club when a very handsome guy, totally my type, started dancing with me. I don’t know what gave me the courage to take the half finished beer from his hand and take a sip of it without asking. I then gave his beer back to him, and he said he had to go but will be right back. It was an excuse to stop dancing with me since he just stayed put in his friend group without going anywhere. I’ve been feeling really bad after that happened and would have danced the night away with him if I could. And now I have no idea what his name or phone number is, just keep replaying that night in my mind.
What is your opinion on a woman taking a man’s beer and having a sip without asking? Is it such an awful gesture that his sudden rejection was warranted? Was he angry, scared off, or just thought I was easy? I am not that type of person and had no ill intentions whatsoever. I just acted on natural impulse and was trying to be flirtatious. Thank you for any advice and comfort.
I’d personally be a tiny bit put off, but it certainly wouldn’t have been a dealbreaker for me.
Edit: Having reflected on it, I think that, if the vibes were good, I wouldn’t have minded at all. I suppose it’s just one of those things that you feel out in the moment. Don’t let it bug you too much; you’re a cool bee. :)
Thank you for the compliment! It made me smile :) Sorry for the delay after recently traveling. You’re a cool bee too