I don’t know if you want to responds but I’m going to give it anyways since your comment was still in my inbox

I’m a dude that’s clearly a dude, but no aggressive appearance or attitude or anything. it’s just that I am a remote employee and so I’m often dealing with people who haven’t even met me in person yet, or if they have maybe it’s only been once. and I’m working on so many different things that I’m not going to take the time to do pleasantries for each thing