If you want 3d go https://menyr.nogstudio.com/, game master engine or talespire.

I like foundry. I also liked astral. I didn’t like r20 much. Owlbears is OK. Playing in just a Mural is also more than fine.

The dnd vtts purpose is to be a walled garden that only plays dnd, ever, and keeps you playing dnd and putting microtransaction in front of you so you pay and play only dnd EVER