I was never really motivated one way or the other. When I was younger, I had a few names on a list I thought would be cute. As I got older and more established, I stopped caring if I would have kids. Then when I was 29, I was in a near fatal car crash and broke my back. That kind of solidified no kids for me, I already get enough frustration from my spinal fusion, I don’t want to add birthing a child to that. I can always volunteer somewhere if I want, plus my neighbors, cousins, and friends all have plenty of kids for me to be around.
So now, my partner and I are happy bunny parents :)
I was never really motivated one way or the other. When I was younger, I had a few names on a list I thought would be cute. As I got older and more established, I stopped caring if I would have kids. Then when I was 29, I was in a near fatal car crash and broke my back. That kind of solidified no kids for me, I already get enough frustration from my spinal fusion, I don’t want to add birthing a child to that. I can always volunteer somewhere if I want, plus my neighbors, cousins, and friends all have plenty of kids for me to be around.
So now, my partner and I are happy bunny parents :)