• nomad@infosec.pub
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    23 hours ago

    In my personal experience its usually the mother struggling with her new body more than anybody shaming her. I love my wife and couldn’t care less about her belly after three pregnancies, but she thinks she is ugly now and not worthy of my attraction. The older folks here know that in later years intimacy is more about being close to the person you love and less about their pornstar performance. Its how you sustain attraction after the 15 years old in you had tried out everything you can think of.