• andyburke@fedia.io
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    I am only one data point but I am a man and I much prefer no makeup.

    Not a “natural look,” it’s not a skill issue for women applying their makeup as much as I see that explanation offered.

    I prefer no makeup.

    You can wear makeup, that’s fine (and my wife does, for her) but I am allowed to prefer her with no make-up.

    What is truly disappointing for me is how I don’t think she believes me even to this day.

    🤷‍♂️

    Life is weird.

    • LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPM
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      Hey Andy thanks for stopping by! Your comments about your wife are really sweet. We’re a trans inclusive women only community so please don’t comment again thanks for understanding 🥰

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        Understood, and forgive the follow-on, it will be my last here. I landed in this thread from /all. I am not sure if there is some way to exclude your own community from the feed, but maybe that would be worth discussing with the devs to avoid this kind of situation. Having given the feedback I wanted, hope y’all have fun!

        Edit for just another couple technical suggestions in the hopes they’re at all helpful to align everyone’s interests: members-only commenting, or a way to show a specific warning before posting/commenting/participating in a community if the community configures it.

        • LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPM
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          Thanks Andy, don’t worry we looked into all that and it’s’s not doable. We’ve also found if we put warnings in the title we get attacked by incels. Fortunately the majority of men that pop by are nice respectful men like you and we appreciate you 😊