• Jul (they/she)@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    2 days ago

    As a neurodiverse person myself, I usually try to phrase the question as “what hobbies are you currently working on” to keep the conversation more about the present rather than fleeting hobbies/interests. Open ended questions lead to taking a long time to compile all of the information, targeted questions lead to an easier time coming up with an answer. Same with favorite music or movies or whatever. I’ve been alive for decades, how can I list off every artist/song/movie I’ve liked in that time. Something like “what music have you discovered lately” is easier to answer.