It’s all a complicated intersection of being intensely asexual and sex-repulsed, being incredibly afraid of ever being called a creep or a pervert or a molester, or worse, and navigating spaces where a lot of people think that trans women are sex-crazed perverts.
I have mastered the art of not drawing attention to myself in public.
People don’t ask that of me; in fact, my own friends ask me, “Tanis, why are you trying so hard to avoid being perceived, and why is it working?”
So your hobby is The Importance of Not Being Seen?
It’s all a complicated intersection of being intensely asexual and sex-repulsed, being incredibly afraid of ever being called a creep or a pervert or a molester, or worse, and navigating spaces where a lot of people think that trans women are sex-crazed perverts.
I have mastered the art of not drawing attention to myself in public.