• Echo Dot@feddit.uk
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      7 hours ago

      That was definitely my thought reading it but also it would be a thought that I wouldn’t articulate because that’s not what’s actually happening, she just wants a friend to make sure I’m not creepy. So that definitely wouldn’t be the right thing to say.

      Although if it was the right kind of person and the date was going well I suppose it could come off as a good joke depending on the person

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      10 hours ago

      Pretty much. OP being a real dick for no reason with that last sentence.

      Just ask if you’re okay with dating both in that scenario.

    • Mickey7@lemmy.worldOP
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      10 hours ago

      That would have been the move. “Is she attractive?” Result would be she tells you to get lost which is fine. Or 3 people have a great time that you don’t mind financing