Are we reading the same post? I don’t see wounded victim, I see OP saying no (for any reason), then see a hypocrite throwing a tantrum, and the OP being hurt by the hypocrisy and the tantrum?

And you calling him an incel for that? Was he supposed to bend over and suddenly get interested because that’s what she wants?

In your head how OP should behave here to not be an “incel”?