I’m glad you said this because I was having a difficult time answering before I read this. Most things I regret doing/not doing are because they don’t align with my core values and I’m human so unfortunately I sometimes do things I shouldn’t or avoid doing things I should and apparently do both of those equally.
Depends on if the thing aligns with who I imagine myself to be.
If I believe that I am a kind person would the thing align with that belief?
If I also believe myself to be a good Christian would that action be aligned with this self belief as well?
Repeat through my own self beliefs and usually what most aligns with who I believe myself to be; tends to be the thing that I regret the least.
I find trying to be what others want but not trying to be who I am is what caused most of my regrets.
I’m glad you said this because I was having a difficult time answering before I read this. Most things I regret doing/not doing are because they don’t align with my core values and I’m human so unfortunately I sometimes do things I shouldn’t or avoid doing things I should and apparently do both of those equally.