The big one is that I need her to respect me as an adult. The parenting stopped when I was 13 and picked back up again after my first marriage 8 years ago and the relationship has been tense since then.
As long as she can accept that I’ve grown and blossomed into a fully fledged adult and treat me as such, I’m happy. I just don’t want all my life choices questioned by someone who can’t physically see the material conditions I’m in to lead to such choices (we have about 2000 miles between us).
The big one is that I need her to respect me as an adult. The parenting stopped when I was 13 and picked back up again after my first marriage 8 years ago and the relationship has been tense since then.
As long as she can accept that I’ve grown and blossomed into a fully fledged adult and treat me as such, I’m happy. I just don’t want all my life choices questioned by someone who can’t physically see the material conditions I’m in to lead to such choices (we have about 2000 miles between us).