I hate this. So I (18FtM) have a BF (24M) and he has been showing me less affection and not really taking an interest in my things or what I want to do. He doesn’t really like my interests but it’s okay, we’ve been getting along. Sometimes, he doesn’t even know if he wants to be with me, but it’s okay.

Meanwhile, I just met this guy (19M) earlier today and we’re really hitting it off, although we just met. I’m starting to like him and IDK what to do because I like my boyfriend too and probably like him more.

  • Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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    4 days ago

    There’s two completely separate situations happening here.

    1. Your relationship with your boyfriend is unfulfilling. You can choose to either try to fix it or end it.

    2. You caught feelings for a stranger. Continuing to give time to this person while in a relationship would be inappropriate and wrong by most standards, regardless of how bad or unfulfilling the relationship is.