Hey all, hope everyone is doing well.
I’m curious if anyone out there has made a conscious decision to not date or be in a relationship anymore.
If so, what was your rationale? Do you feel it was the right decision? If you’re currently considering it, why?
I’ve always kinda sucked at relationships and honestly don’t need to be in one. I stopped trying years ago and basically have zero interest. I’m pretty weird, and I know my own red flags. If I were a used car I’d not even recommend a test drive in that death trap.
Seriously though, I needed to learn to be myself by myself. Now I know who I am, and finding anyone that would put up with my brand of crazy is a fool’s errend, so I’m not gonna put in work on a futile task like that.
I almost hate to laugh but your used car analogy is just to funny. Maybe because I can relate to a degree 🙂
There’s always the possibility that a fool may come your way!! One who understands your brand of crazy. I agree that active pursuit may not be the best thing but, not sure you should rule it out either.
Appreciate you sharing your perspective!!