Hey all, hope everyone is doing well.

I’m curious if anyone out there has made a conscious decision to not date or be in a relationship anymore.

If so, what was your rationale? Do you feel it was the right decision? If you’re currently considering it, why?

  • Brotha_Jaufrey@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    I recently encountered someone who was interested in me, but I backed away. Not because I was necessarily uninterested, but I think I have enough reasons to not be dating right now:

    Scheming to move to a better place soon, looking at my current life and realizing I don’t want to welcome someone else into this quite yet, needing therapy, etc.

    • randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.orgOP
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      3 days ago

      Fair and interesting perspective. I get the impression though, you’re not “calling it quits forever” just trying to figure other things out first.

      That sounds like a smart move! It’s going to be a much better situation if you are where you want to be first.

      Thank you so much and I hope everything falls into place regarding what you want to do!! Good luck!!