he says he wants to stay but then he said he doesn’t know if he has feelings for me and if we should date, then he says he really likes me and wants to date, and when i asked him for clarification he just told me he wants to sleep.
he doesn’t wanna end things either but it makes me sad sometimes how he acts and what he says
(i’m going to sleep too, will answer in the morning)
I think you’re his safety/ fall back plan. Do you want to be a safety/ fall back plan?
Mate, he’s wasting your time. You’d be better off without him, and I’m saying that from the experience of once having been that person myself.
If it is not a hell yes, it is a no.
Life is too short for safety relationships with people who are only staying out of fear of being alone.
There are so few absolutes in relationships. But this Mark Manson totally nails one of them: https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes.
