i posted this to get any advice i can get. he and i (both men) have only been together for 3 months but i really love him and want to support him. he’s had a hard life and struggles with mental health and always feeling empty or depressed. sometimes, i watch his streams and ask about the game he’s playing, and i don’t even mind that he plays video games to cope or plays them at all, but he barely talks to me. we are long-distance, too, so i can’t go visit him in-person. he doesn’t really have time to talk due to playing his game and doesn’t wanna stop and be affectionate or talk or anything when he’s busy with the game. he does it constantly to the point where literally all he does is game and we barely talk from it, idk what to do.
Have you set boundaries? If not set boundaries on what you need and want in a relationship, if he doesn’t listen or doesn’t respect it. Then it’s time to move on. As someone who has had lots of previous relationships with people who don’t respect my boundaries, it’s incredibly important to set boundaries both ways.
thanks so much!! i’ll set boundaries. also, i noticed ur a system, so am i :D
There so much systems out there and open. Makes me feel less alone. :)
im glad there’s so many systems here :]
do u make separate accounts for your alters or no?? :)