i posted this to get any advice i can get. he and i (both men) have only been together for 3 months but i really love him and want to support him. he’s had a hard life and struggles with mental health and always feeling empty or depressed. sometimes, i watch his streams and ask about the game he’s playing, and i don’t even mind that he plays video games to cope or plays them at all, but he barely talks to me. we are long-distance, too, so i can’t go visit him in-person. he doesn’t really have time to talk due to playing his game and doesn’t wanna stop and be affectionate or talk or anything when he’s busy with the game. he does it constantly to the point where literally all he does is game and we barely talk from it, idk what to do.
it’s gta, probably, i don’t game much but i could try it.
Play through the portal 2 co-op together and either: yall have fun and it’s gonna be ok and you have something to build on, orrr dude acts like a dick to you the whole time and it’s time to cut your losses.
thank you, he says he wants to play with me but says he doesn’t feel like he has time despite having time to play alone. i will try tho
Idk my dude ultimatums are never great but you can’t chase this forever.
that’s fair, i’ll try and play with him or break up