• CyberEgg@discuss.tchncs.de
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    2 days ago

    Ambition and pride is what brought me to this point where I can’t take responsibilities anymore.

    Drawing your self worth too much out of getting shit done leads to burnouts. Take care of yourself. Take a nap. It’s OK.

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      23 hours ago

      Sure you can relate to it but I can’t like I said.

      Not sure why how I feel about it is so controversial.

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        23 hours ago

        What you said is not controversial. Controversial would mean that it sparks debate. What you said is universally disliked. Not the part about not relating, that’s fine. But the part about not taking naps and getting shit done. Because it’s unhealthy. Because your mindset most likely is going to get your burned out sooner or later. And I’m talking from experience here. I’ve been there, I’ve done that, I burned out, twice. I’m serious when I say “take care of yourself and take a nap.”
        Maybe see it this way: if you take breaks and take naps, you can get more shit done in the long term.

        Also that stuff about no pride, ambition or self worth being displayed. That’s just disrespectful and people generally don’t like being disrespected.

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          23 hours ago

          Well if people think it’s disrespectful for someone else to be motived and ambitious they have problems.

          I’ll take care of myself by earning more, learning more and contributing more thanks.

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            23 hours ago

            Well if people think it’s disrespectful for someone else to be motived and ambitious they have problems.

            Nope, that’s not it.

            All right, your dumb. Bye.