Yeah all the queer Chinese people I’ve talked to about this have told me the only issues they’ve had is with their family members being homophobic about them specifically. Many people I’ve talked to didn’t have this experience because their parents were fine with it, so it’s not everyone’s experience, but it does seem to be the most common manifestation of homophobia, directly from family to the person being discriminated against.

Apparently there is even some conversion therapy type outfits that parents put their kids in