• agent_nycto@lemmy.world
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    16 hours ago

    My friend once said that East Coast is not polite but kind, and West Coast is polite but not kind

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      14 hours ago

      Bostonites will give you the shirt of their back but will berate you the entire time for being so fucking stupid that now I gotta give you my shirt you fucking idiot, don’t you think at all?

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      12 hours ago

      I think it’s far more north south than east west. The PNW is definitely kind, though they’re neither nice nor mean, more just uncomfortable you’re talking to them. Meanwhile the southeast gives California a run for their money in polite cruelty.

      People are aware that without a culture built around it places like Alaska with 22+ hours of light/dark a day can make people a little crazy, but I think the inverse also can cause problems without a culture built around it. Winter is good for you even if it sucks

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      It’s a very accurate description of the Northeast. People will help you dig your car out of the snow while passively aggressively exhaling very loudly to emphasize how much of a pain it is. But then they’ll just walk away not even expecting a thank you.

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      16 hours ago

      You know, as someone that’s live on both coasts for extended periods of time, that’s exactly right. I’ve never been able to explain it but that’s spot on. Thanks!!

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      14 hours ago

      I dunno, I found people on the West Coast would go out of their way to accommodate my wife when she was unable to walk.

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        14 hours ago

        Yeah people here are scared of making friends with their neighbors for some reason, but as a disabled person people look out for me.

        Californians are angry in traffic.

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          Oh in traffic all that new England kindness goes away rapidly. If you impede them without needing help well they won’t ram you or wave a gun, so it’s better than Midwestern drivers, but they will honk their hearts out and cut you off

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            It’s def aggro driving but usually not stupid or insane. I never saw someone wildly cut across 3 highway lanes to make an exit til I moved to the midwest

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      12 hours ago

      No wonder I feel at home in the north east, but here I am in Texas where people will gladly vote against their best interrest.