Lady Butterfly she/her@reddthat.com to WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone · 4 days agoThis is just...badreddthat.comimagemessage-square100fedilinkarrow-up1508arrow-down10
arrow-up1508arrow-down1imageThis is just...badreddthat.comLady Butterfly she/her@reddthat.com to WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone · 4 days agomessage-square100fedilink
minus-squareZDL@lazysoci.allinkfedilinkarrow-up2·3 days agoI learned a technique as a teen that involves crossing my legs in a particular angle and flexing/relaxing my thigh muscles. Very good way to get through the day relaxed and mild.
minus-squarecassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·3 days agoBut crucially jot noisy or distracting to others. Like music in headphones?
minus-squareZDL@lazysoci.allinkfedilinkarrow-up1·2 days agoIt’s very subtle, yes. My breathing might get a little irregular or I might get slightly flushed.
minus-squarecassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·2 days agoAs opposed to vibrator noise!
minus-squareZDL@lazysoci.allinkfedilinkarrow-up1·2 days agoExactly! Far more subtle than a butterfly! (Those can get very noisy if you’re seated on a plastic chair.)
I learned a technique as a teen that involves crossing my legs in a particular angle and flexing/relaxing my thigh muscles.
Very good way to get through the day relaxed and mild.
But crucially jot noisy or distracting to others. Like music in headphones?
It’s very subtle, yes. My breathing might get a little irregular or I might get slightly flushed.
As opposed to vibrator noise!
Exactly! Far more subtle than a butterfly! (Those can get very noisy if you’re seated on a plastic chair.)
Exactly.