You’ve come into this thread to say ‘she should have known better’.

I didn’t.

You’re right, my mistake, you said:

You can choose settings that make your likeness private, or open to just your friends — but I figured, why not?

Because this is the internet?

She basically said “take my face, do whatever with it” and now seems surprised that people did whatever with it to get their rocks off.

Which is basically saying ‘she should have known better’ but with extra steps.

It doesn’t actually work if you say stuff that is victim-blaming but add a little disclaimer that says “I’m not victim-blaming”. Like I said, you’re thiiiis 🤏 close to getting it.